Monday, May 28, 2012

getting rid of excess baggage


wedges c/o blowfish shoes // skinny jeans: tjmax c/o my mamma :)
glasses: c/o GlassesUSA.com  // lucky brand bracelet c/o Langston's Western Wear
head scarf: vintage (my grammie's)

One thing that makes a momma's life easier is a good bag.  Sometimes - between the computer bag, the diaper bag, and a purse I just feel like a bag lady and with all the straps around my neck and shoulders plus toting a 20 pounder I can start feeling like I should have trained for olympic body building or something.  That's where this old school american bag from Conversation Pieces comes in... its the perfect size to help me condense some of my excess baggage.  When M and I are running short errands around town or even into the office I can throw in my calendar and my notepad, my wallet, a diaper, burp cloth, and a snack (for both of us), and other purse necessities.  Plus it zips shut which I learned very quickly after she became mobile is a must!  I love that it has a full strap, but also has handles for a quick grab.  I get compliments on it everywhere I go.  In three words: I love it.

...I hope everyone has some great & restful plans for your (hopefully) day off today.  Don't forget among the boat rides and bbq to thank our service men and women and to remember those who have served (and given their lives) in the past.

xo
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In honor of Memorial Day:
Conversations Pieces has free shipping on all orders through the end of today (5/28)

Thursday, May 24, 2012

What is it I (me, myself) plan to do with MY one...


It's a question I've been pondering lately.  Even more so with my invitation to be included in Influence Conference as a community leader.  What is it that I actually plan to do with MY ONE wild and PRECIOUS life?  Just one.  Just me.  I can't plan for anyone else, but me - myself... thats a whole different ball game.  I believe the Lord holds my plans in His hands and though I can't begin to discern the depths of them, I know His plan is not for me to sit idle and His plan for me is not to stare at my own belly button.  I have this one (I'll say it again..) wild and precious life, what is it I plan to do with it?

I've got so many things on my heart -- not all are necessarily clear desires or things I know will (or I even realllly want to) happen, but ideas of what my influence is and/or can be.  Some are concrete and real now, some need room to grow, some are pipe dreams, some I'm horrible at, some are what ifs... Here's a laundry list: 

writing an ebook
writing a book
lead a youth bible study
blogging for a nonprofit to help raise awareness for a cause i believe in
adoption
living abroad / missions
loving my neighbors well
being intentional about building community
be an advocate / spokesperson for something I believe in
show hospitality in word and deed
loving my spouse well
continued education
raising my child(ren) in the nurture and admonition of the Lord
be transparent with my beliefs
be teachable and trainable
pursue relationships
have compassionate boldness
have bold compassion

Some of the things on that list feel really personal and I haven't even begun to scratch the surface of what it might mean for my life.  Like adoption -- I can't begin to fathom it, but almost can't talk about it without crying.  Or an ebook -- what would I write about and who says I've got what it takes?  And some of the list, like loving my neighbors well, I don't even want to "do business with," because I know it means sacrifice and could be, for lack of a better word, messy.  

aaahhh..  well there's a piece of my heart right there for ya.

Here I am Lord.

Public Service Announcement:  
If you haven't heard the buzz about Influence Conference head over to theinfluenceconfernece.com to see what its all about.  In a nutshell: "If you’ve ever wondered how or why the Lord was going to use you in your home, work, community, or online – Influence is a fantastic place to connect and learn. We believe that God has given you influence right where you are, for one purpose: to make much of Him. At Influence we’re going to dig into the common thread of all of us – the Good News. We plan on doing a little teaching, talking, sharing, and celebrating concerning the ways He might want to use you on the individual platforms He’s given." {this Oct. in Indianapolis}


Public Service Announement number two:
looking or an easy peasy way to stay in the word -- join kacia+robot & gussy sews (and a slew of other online ladies... me too) in #shereadstruth.  download the YouVersion Bible on your smart phone and then hop into the "Soul Detox" plan.  I'm on day 8 - Proverbs 12 and loving these verses in light of today's post > 12:11 Whoever works his land will have plenty of bread, but he who follows worthless pursuits lacks sense. & 12:15 The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice.

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Wednesday, May 23, 2012

WIWW: StitchFix - You're Invited!

skirt: MM Couture c/o SitchFix
shirt: tucked in sundress from Urban Outfitters
belt: wish i could remember

I am just beyond happy with this maxi trend right now.  I love that long (and modest) is the new sexy.  Such great news in my book (don't get me wrong, you'll find some short numbers in my closet too).  Anywhoo -- if you remember one thing about this post remember this: STITCHFIX IS THE BOMB and here is why...

Any of you remember "grab bags?"  You could get them at toy stores or the dollar store.  You pay $1-$5 and pick out a brown paper bag marked girl or boy and you had NO idea what was going to be inside.  It was kind of like gabling for kids and the surprise of what candy and trinkets was inside was almost more than I could handle.  Well, stitchFix takes all the excitement of getting a wrapped surprise and puts an awesome adult spin on it.  All the big stars have one and now you can too --> your own personal shopper!  Yup -- the consultants at stitchfix pack a special surprise box tailored just for you.

How it works:
You fill out a survey online about your likes, dislikes, favorite stores, and style influences (its actually really fun to fill out and even includes picking out pictures of outfits you like more than others -- like the eye doctor, better one? or two? two, or three?... i digress...).  Once you complete your profile you are paired with stylist that best fits your style.  From there you pay $20 upfront to order your fix.  You can also specify when ordering what kind of things you would like to see in your fix, i.e. cocktail attire, sundresses... I asked for a maxi skirt. :)



And then your pretty brown wrapped package arrives (again, remember brown paper grab bags - this is way awesomer. and yes, awesomer is a word).  I did a happy dance when my box arrived -- it was much like my Christmas morning happy dance (man, i'm goofy and using a lot of parenthesis today).  Something else awesome about how everything arrives is that each has a tag with suggestions on how to wear the garment.  So it really is like you have a stylist with you with you try them on.


What was in my box:
BB Dakota jill navajo tunic / $85
MM Coutur ester pleated skirt / $62
Dex ali pink batik print top / $58
Bluejuice larisa cropped drape jacket / $95
Betty Carre Gold spear earrings / $28

So, you get a box full of goodies, non of which you are obligate to keep.  BUT -- that $20 you pay upfront goes towards anything you decide to keep, PLUS if you decide to keep it all you get it at 25% off the marked prices.

Once you've picked out what you like:  Whatever you decide not to keep you put in a prepaid return envelope and send back.  What also is great is that you don't just send it back, but you fill out a quick little questionare online so that your stylist will know how to better taylor your next fix based on what you liked and didn't like about your fix.  

From my fix, I only kept the skirt.  Which only keeping one thing is not a loss because now knowing how different things didn't fit or wasn't quite my style will only make my next fix better.  Also -- y'all know I'm a bargin hunter and so don't usually spend this kind of $$ on my clothes, so next time I'll request for some items that are little friendlier for my personal budget (total disclosure: I was given a credit to do this review).

So, do you want a fix?!
Sitchfix is still in beta, so you have to have an invite.... BUT -- I have an invite for you.  Click HERE to sign up.  This link is your personal invite from me.  I realllly want you to sign up because I know you will love it & they have a great referral program (I get $ towards my next fix whenever someone signs up from my invite)!  And -- once you are in, you can get in on the referral program too and earn yourself some swag bucks of your own.  

Oh it is so fun!! Can't wait for my next fix!!! Let me know if you get one -- would love to see what's in your box!  If you have any questions or hesitations about it feel free to email me, i'd love to help!

xo

 pleated poppy
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